Hello,
Ego is a terribly misunderstood word.
Many believe "ego" is a very bad thing, yet we are informed by other sources the low self esteem is also a contributing factor in various personal issues.
So, what is the truth about Ego and what is it really for?
For me, ego is a person's sense of themselves. In itself, it is not a good or bad thing, it just is. Properly managed and nurtured, the ego is the drive to achieve and makes us proud of our own achievements. As long as it is kept in balance with other aspects of life, ego can be a very valuable attribute.
So, what is boasting? This is where you are proud of an achievement and you make it known. Usually with lots of enthusiasm and maybe at some volume! This is the formula one racing driver shaking the bottle of champagne, the soccer player doing cartwheels, etc. It is an enthusiastic outburst of achievement.
The difference here is "make more of". Whereas ego often clouds the truth, boasting is a known exaggeration. Unlike to possible untruth of ego, boasting is a knowingly performed overstatement. It is also a huge make more of, and therefore improves mood and future performance.
Go on, have a big boast about something you have achieved recently. Even if is seems daft to shout about it, it will sure make you feel good!
Have a wonderful extended weekend.Malcolm
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